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Of deception regarding perfection and my take on it . . . .

Well, I've always kept thinking and my deep thoughts have led me to conclude one thing that I'm always full of deception just because of the simple fact that I think I'm 100 per cent perfect when I still am not one myself. I'm not so sure about my perfection but maybe my peers or my seniors still have the authority to decide on the level of perfection I possess. Say, for instance, I am considering my parents and teachers as well as my friends who are the best judges when it comes to deciding my level of perfection. They study my behavior, gestures and other aspects of my character that determine the level of perfection I possess. Their suggestions and continuous criticisms have made me what I am today. I feel that their sense of judgement can play a very important role in helping me decide the level of perfection I possess because I think if it was not for their judgements, I would have still had tend to think that I am totally perfect when I'm still not. Now comin...

Why is life so weird and pathetic?

For the past few days, I was thinking why is life so strange, why is it so pathetic and thus, came a strange realization. I realized that yes life is strange, it always turns pathetic the least when you want it not to be. It was just last year when I joined IBA. Strangely, it was an awesome time I had. All but fun and enjoyment. New friend and a nice environment and on top of that a good number of seniors who were like a family for us. I really got used to being with my friends, but more that that seniors. But now, as they are leaving us the element of fun seems to have been curtailed. The hostel has turned silent. I'm not going to hear their voices in our hostel again. The liveliness, the fun and the good times we had with them just vanishes. This silence is really hurting. I feel sad and lonely again, though I'm having my friends here. They always keep telling me that this is life, it always has been and get used to it, but still my heart fails to accept the fact ...

What is Past???

I wonder what is past. Does anyone know what is past? Hell, no..... I have a different perspective  in respect as to what is past. Past is something which can't be changed, a deep dark dungeon where there is may be happiness, anguish, sadness, anxiety, fear, and utmost only gloom and despair, a distant thing which never comes back. Is it so? Yes, sort of. I feel that past is only a very deep, dark and gloomy cavern in which if one enters, he/she can never come back. It's also a deep dark non-ending dungeon in which if one falls, can never even think of coming back. It is non-ending, it's depth is infinite. Any fool in his wildest dreams would not even like as to peep into that dungeon as it attracts evrything towards itself forcefully or by tempting him to do so like a black hole in our galaxy does. Everything, every passing moment, second or even a minute is a star that enters the black hole and disappears forever. One should never try to look deep into his past as it wil...

The real meaning of loss...

It's been a long time since I last blogged. Trust me guys, I was not finding time at all. Regular classes, mundane schedules and pathetic life was preventing me from reaching out to you. Today, this optimistic person for the first time in his blog goes pessimistic. Life is something that will certainly turn any happy and optimistic person sad and pessimistic. Does anyone truly know the meaning of loss? I don't think so and I have my own reasons for this. Everyone thinks losses are temporary or are so unimportant that we tend to rather evade it or cover it up with something or the other. But, some losses can't truly be recovered. Just think for a while and you will come to know of which loss I'm talking about. I won't take the name, but sadly he was our best friend, kind, helpful and motivating. He never said "No" to anyone. A person who had an ever so happy face, a laugh no one can forget, love for each and every fellow mates as though they were his own ...

Try and be industrious.....

Well, I know this word is new to us. It means "working energetically and devotedly." Well, very few people live up to this definition. Well, try and be like them as it will help you in the long run. Well, the classic example of an industrious creature is a bee. Watch it and I am sure you will learn something from it. You may have seen a bee, how difficult its life is. It goes to distant places in search of  nectar or what we call honey. It still goes and gets honey for his family members back at the have, but, with utmost devotion and energetically as always. Can't we be like that bee, who works day in and day out industriously? And now, still if I have to take this into consideration, have you seen a beehive, I guess you must have. What do you think can it be built without the hard work and industriousness of the bees who put their sweat and hard work to it? No, it takes their full devotion and energetic efforts to build it. Now, I think we have also seen ants, the leve...

Perseverent......Are we??

What is perseverance? Literal meaning of perseverance is "steady and continued action or belief, usually over a long period and especially despite difficulties or setbacks." Well, I don't think we are perseverant. We tend to give up the slightest we find some difficulties. Some do fulfill the definition but I will ask the others defying the definition. I feel this thing is helpful in making us succeed in life. Well, take the example of a spider. It is perseverant to build its web inspite of all the difficulties. Try and be like a spider and see the outcome. It will be a loud and clear success. If you really want to succeed, try it.....

Are we grateful?

Are we really grateful? I don't think so. We feel we are grateful for each and every good thing that happens to us. Well, maybe some of us are. Let's take the people on the ungrateful side. We always tend to think that these good things are tricks to fool us, when they are opportunities for us to be thankful. Think of it this way. Someday, you do something good for others and they don't thank you, how will you feel? I hope now we get to understand the meaning of being grateful. Try it. It is free and very inexpensive.....